MYTHS OF THE YOUNGSTERS
Before entering into the vast field of sex, let us dispel certain myths and unreasoned, baseless, and unfounded notions about certain sex matters as also as sex organs. The entire description will revolve around marital coitus and marital sex, even though scattered references to other topics, maybe pound here and there.
LENGTH OF PENIS
It is often a male-gender worry. Some people think that by having a lengthy penis they can get more sexual pleasure during coition and that their partner would also get sexually ‘worked up’ or excited as, according to him (the male), she loves husbands/men who have a long penis. Men also nurture the idea that their spouse prefers the persons who have long and hard penis. But, certain women also are afraid that by pushing the lengthy penis into their vaginas, their male partners will rip their vaginas apart.
Actually speaking length of a penis must not cause any sort of inferiority complex or any fear in the minds of either sex. It is not the length that matters, but what matters is as to how long and how best a man can satisfy his spouse. The short length of the male organ should be no cause for worry for any male. Certain men, even when they have long penis do ejaculate earlier and thus fail to satisfy their sexually aroused women. On the contrary, some men, even with a not lengthy penis, are not found inferior in sexually satisfying their women. The women are not concerned with the penile length, they are concerned, of course, as to how best their men can quench their sexual thirst to achieve orgasm. The length of the penis is a mere psychological phobia that must be dispelled as soon as possible.
When a penis is ‘placid’ (or in a non-erect position) is usually 3″ long or so, and 4″ or so from base to tip. In a normal erectile position length of a penis would be around 6½” or so, with slight variations. So, it is rather immaterial as to how long a penis a person has. What, in fact, matters and should matter as to how and in what way, and, above all, how long can a man hold his ecstasy?
A word of caution for the ladies. They should never demoralize their husbands or ridicule them, belittle them, or compare them with other persons, as far as the length of the penis is concerned, who have got longer penis. The poor fellow would be deeply hurt, and may even become impotent. For the male to view his penis in a mirror or in a bathroom would relieve, reassure and also satisfy his ego, and thus his inferiority complex would vanish. Moreover, the length of a penis has no relation with the virility and sex performance of a man.
Never let the penile size be a hurdle in the enjoyment of sexual acts, rather concentrate your attention, on other new aspects of love play.
SIZE OF VAGINA AND DEPTH
Young married ladies are scared to approach or be approached by their husbands for the sheer fear that entry of penis would rip apart their vaginas. As already explained, the soft tissues in the vagina are so spongy, soft, and flexible that they can accommodate any kind of male organ. The male also shouldn’t have any such misgiving either. If the woman is properly excited during pre-coital play (or foreplay) the vagina, gets lubricated. A simple point to keep in mind is that if a woman can expel the baby from her vagina then where does the size of a male organ stand? The vagina is like a roomy passage, which extends upwards and backward several inches with soft, well-bolstered comfortable walls and the pleasurable ‘dewy secretion’ that lubricates the opening, making it easy to slip out and slip in. This love juice is generated by the vaginal walls which pour the secretion ahead. According to Masters and Johnson, within 30 seconds the woman’s vagina is moist enough to allow entry of the male penis. Lubrication and muscular relaxation will facilitate male organ entry. So, the real job is done by lubricating vagina juice. Actually, a lubricated vagina is indicative of its readiness to accept the entry of male organs.
The best way for a woman to keep her vaginal muscles in perfect humor is to exercise with vaginal muscles by way of expansion and contraction. This process would also strengthen the muscles and tighten them also.