SENSITIVE FEMALE PARTS
Hereunder, we suggest the methods of exciting sexual passion in women, starting from hair to downwards up to thighs.
HAIR
Men have a preference for long, curly, lustrous hair. Some like dark black or not very dark, or dark brown or light brown hair. Long and curly hair are traits of a woman, though now there is a fashion to have shoulder cut or boy-cut hair. Man, by nature, would prefer to play fondling with a woman’s hair, like to untangle them, and bring tufts of hair over the shoulders and breasts of his mate. Long hair, in India, is considered a sign of femininity and beauty but, in Western countries, trimmed hair is preferred and liked. Fondle with her hair-moving your fingers gently and softly over her hair.
Some women have extremely thick hair which, when played with or entangled with, causes a sore feeling. If your mate dislikes playing with her hair, don’t do anything which antagonizes her. Love is always a matter of mutual compromise, and never of any ill will or confrontation. Assent is the essence of any successful pre-coital play or foreplay. During a few initial love episodes, both partners will gradually come to realize what are the likes and dislikes of one’s partner. Time will solve many such handicaps and pitfalls. Proceed together, and reach orgasm in coitus, if you want to enjoy timely ejaculation and climax. Don’t ever force your will and preference over those of your partner.
LIPS, TONGUE, AND MOUTH (KISSING)
The mouth is one of the most powerful of all erogenous zones, above the neck. The mouth is the gateway to what we ingest and it is through the mouth that our digestive process starts. Not only that, the mouth is the first arousal point, but it requires to be handled gently. But, some women, especially the traditional and hackneyed Indian lady, a believer in whatever is orthodox and religious, would not like to be kissed on her lips, yet she may not object to being kissed on the cheeks. But the permissive, neo-rich, pseudo-modern, and advanced Indian lady has hardly, rather none at all, any qualms about kissing or being kissed, rather she would like to outwit her Western counterpart and may even prove to be more permissive.
Kissing needs no planning, it is an instantaneous and sexy act. You can kiss your beloved in the kitchen, in the bathroom, in cinema halls, while dancing, during coitus, while changing clothes, while she is busy with domestic chores, or when serving some dish to you. Kissing brings you nearer your wife who draws nearer to you and firmly holds her man in her arms to feel the heat and intensity of his proximity.
Erotic sensations derived differ from person to person. In some persons kissing lands them in a heightened frenzy, whereas in others it may even dampen their sexual feelings. Mouth sucking, which includes lips and tongue, is such a practice that hastens sexual sensitivity and sends sensuality to new heights. It is an act of intimacy, producing sensory signals which, in turn, symbolize penetration (of tongue in the partner’s mouth which points to French kissing or ‘Soul Kissing’) and that of penis in the vagina. (the opening of which resembles also lips called, rightly, labia majora/minor). Genital stimulation can be easily triggered by sucking the partner’s (either sex) lips and/or tongue. If the man starts by deeply, but gently, kissing his wife, he will cause a stimulated reaction in other sex organs.
There are couples (not necessarily pertaining to married couples alone) who not only enjoy but prefer also, continuous kissing during sex whereas some men prefer an occasional kiss. Some men opt for passionate kissing, landing the other partner into vaginal lubrication or love- dews. More than man, it is the woman who desires to be cuddled and held. During the course of kissing, some men fondle their woman’s hair, press, and gently play on the earlobes, often kissing the eyes and cheeks too.
As the mouth is one of the most highly charged sensual zones of female erogenous zones, very few men pay much attention to this aspect, generally keeping them busy with other erotic acts. They even forget that to kiss a woman on her lips is to prepare their woman for sexual acts. First kiss your partner’s lips many a time, inducing her for a rebound action. Push your tongue deep into her mouth, frequently running the tip of your tongue, also feverishly running the tip of your tongue in the inside portion of her cheeks and lips. Now turning her neck slightly on one side, try to touch her hard palate with the tip of your tongue.
BREASTS
‘Sex flush’ normally begins below the breastbone in the abdomen’s upper region and thereafter spreads over the breasts. Women are more conscious of the shape of their breasts. Even if flaccid and sagging, they would wear bras and pads so that they look erect, rounded, well-shaped, and attractive. The breast is the only visible organ of a female figure that attracts men of all hues and ages. The left breast is larger than the right one. The nipple is located at the tip of the breast that mostly is comprised of a network of nerve-endings and smooth muscle fibers both of which make it (breast) a highly sensitive organ to touch, even contact with tight clothes sometimes suffices to ignite volatile passionate feeling.
In the Western world, women are more conscious of their breasts and do everything possible so that every man gets attracted. She knows full well that her breasts are gifted with special erotic allure which symbolizes femininity, sexuality, and attractiveness. The size of a woman’s breasts is every man’s focus. X-rated films have changed the old concepts that large-bosomed ladies are more sexy and responsive to overtones. Even now, most men still hold a firm view that large-breasted women are more adept in erotic love, easily excited sexually, and get charged up quickly this is a total fallacy. Another fallacy is that women with short breasts or flat-chested ones are devoid of any sexual fervor and that their response is cool and passive or they don’t have the capacity to respond sexually.
Now we come to sexual arousal through breast maneuvers. First of all, cup each breast in each hand, squeezing them rhythmically, softly, and gently. By deft and soft handling you can arouse yourself and your partner to a sexual pitch. You should kiss and suck her nipples. It should only be adhered to, if and when your partner concurs with it. The kissing and sucking process excites both men and women equally if the man gets ‘hot’ or ‘turns on’ quickly he must ensure that he can match the arousal crescendo of her mate. Both must proceed in a uniform manner, caring for the sentiments of the other partner. Never overact, but act and act in a sensible way where both are equal partners. You should make sure that her nipples are not sucked (by violent suction) violently lest her nipples are hurt. Stimulate the very end of the nipple with the tip of your tongue as it is a highly erotic stimulating point.
By caressing the breasts in an effective way you will find your mate’s nipples appear firm and erect, and her bosom will enlarge. You can also suck the nipples of your mate, as the infant does while being breastfed.
While you have finished your sexual arousal of your partner, by stimulating her through kissing the mouth and handling the breasts, you will find love juice on the outer portion of her vulva—it will start oozing out love juices, will become moist, her lips will start quivering, voice will become tempered with love, with some stammer, the pulse will quicken, blood will surge into all parts of our body, and blood-shot eyes will bear testimony to your observation.
A warning to men: Never criticize the mini or bulging shape and size of your mate’s breasts. Always compliment her for having so sexy, voluptuous, and eye-catching breasts (even if they actually defy the truth). Every woman is aware fully of the size and shape of breasts but a word of cheer and appreciation will force her to object submission. Watch very carefully how breasts, nipples, and areola appear at various stages.
VULVA
There should be no confusion about the name. The hairy eminence resembles human lips (in a vertical position). It has the following parts: (1) Pubic Hair, (2) Clitoris (3) Urinary opening, (4) Labia Majora, (5) Labia Minora (6) Opening of vagina and Hymen, and (6) Anus. Now, hereunder, we show how the clitoris, etc. are to be handled to get excitement.
HOW TO CARESS THE CLITORIS
Of all the female sex organs, the clitoris is the most sensitive organ, which looks quite small but is capable to send any woman into sensual ruptures. Once you simply touch () this sensitive organ, the woman can be brought immediately to frantic sensuality. So, it is advised that the clitoris is touched upon as almost the last of all organs.
Some women prefer to have their clitoris gently stroked by the middle finger. During love play, never touch this sensitive organ which has soft tissues and nerve endings. It is a natural sequence of love play when the woman gets excited during hugging, kissing and breast fondling, and sucking. First of all, move your entire hand gently over the entire pubic zone (full of hair), you will notice and find the area moist which starts lubricating the opening of the love passage. Hold the clitoris within your thumb and index finger, but hold very gently. Now rotate the thumb and finger in a clock and anticlockwise direction with the fingertips.
Don’t ever start by fondling or even touching the clitoris. Consult your partner as to how, when, and in which way she would like you to handle and play with this sensitive organ. Here, the woman should rule the roost, for the simple reason that by letting you fondle her clitoris she would not like to reach her orgasm so soon. She would like you to delay the act so that she reaches her climax in a graduated and steady way.
If the vagina has started secreting love juice, but the clitoris and adjoining area are still dry, insert your index and/or middle finger into the labia minora or still farther in the vagina to get more love juice and then apply the liquid on the clitoris. Your partner will guide your hand toward her clitoris and tell you the technique she would prefer. As an alternative, you can use your saliva in place of vaginal secretion.
Some women like their men to squeeze their clitoris against their pubic bone. Clever and manipulative techniques are loved and liked by all women. You can also rub the palm of your hand around and on the clitoris, moving the hand in a circular way, occasionally punching gently with your finger and thumb. If the woman objects to one shows any aversion or asks you to even slow down, you should abide by her wishes. Man’s glans penis (or say even penis as a whole) is analogous to the head of the clitoris, so it is rightly called a miniature penis. The two organs, penis and clitoris are capable of accumulating erotic pleasure and sexual sensations.
Some women love their clitoris to be fiercely sucked by their men (Generally, this habit is noticed in girls who are nymphomaniacs) or licked after applying their saliva or by application of vaginal fluid, other women wish their clitoris to be stroked by the tip of an erectile penis. When both come into each other’s contact, invariably both run into uncontrollable sexual heights. Incidentally, some women prefer their clitoris to be bathed with love juices, quite often, during course of mating.
Men should ensure the hygienic condition of their mouths. If they have any wound, stomatitis, any growth (of cancerous orgasm), or if they have ingested some pungent medicament, they should abstain from touching the clitoris with their tongue, lips, or even with saliva. In such cases, only fingers and palms should be used for the purpose but take note of the caution given earlier that hands must be cleaned before touching any female organs. It equally applies to women also who should make sure, before entering into any coital or even oral love-making act, that they are hygienically clean.
THIGHS
The inner side of the thighs is also a sensitive zone. This area starts from the thigh joint downwards. During the coital act, the woman squeezes her thighs to give added joy to the male, by tightening his penis in between her thighs. A man should work his fingers from upward down in a circular way, slightly squeezing often, to create a feeling of crawling on her thigh zones. Thighs also enable a woman to contract and expand her vulva and vagina, thus creating a feeling of release-and squeeze.
LOVE SLAPS
Both partners, during love play and intercourse, love to be lovingly slapped. This process should be gentle and soft, where the element of sustainable pain is welcome and both partners love to be slapped reciprocally. Both partners hug and squeeze each other to such an extent that either of them feels a sense of pain, of course enjoyable. The sequence of pain should be one of squeeze-and-release and soon but care should be taken that the technique doesn’t prove to be a painful and agonizing act and, if that is so, it can mar the chance of happy coition.
LOVE BITES
Pinch various parts of her sex zones, avoiding pain, kissing her furiously, but not so furiously as to cause bleeding or inflicting any injury. Love bites on breasts are a usual and favorite passion of women (not of all). They also wish to be sucked deeply into all erogenous organs to derive libidinal pleasure. Avoid using your teeth while applying love bites. Try to suck hard, but leave no dent mark, as dent marks are bound to be deeper and may leave permanent dental imprints. Be careful never to apply love bites, particularly on nipples, as they are too soft. Also, don’t give any love bite or punch with the thumb, or finger-nail combination on the vulva and vagina, or clitoris, as the danger of damage is too great to such sensitive and soft sex organs. Prove to be a gentle operator, thus avoiding any amount of force. When such extra-marital techniques are applied to your wife, she would neither relish, encourage or tolerate, or may even resist your attempts. Though, one can bite only with teeth, totally forget about the existence of your teeth. While giving love bites use your lips, and the soft pads of your fingers for the job.
BOTTOM-SMACKING
The gluteal muscle is the only organ in the body, having the maximum amount of thick flesh followed closely by large and heavy breasts. While a woman lies beneath you, her body is liable to get tired, and, more so, her bottom on which rests the weight of her body. Buttocks are fleshy, soft flexible, and easy to handle. The bottom is the only portion that every woman wishes to be held firmly, squeezed forcefully in a squeeze-and-release technique—do it in the same way as kneading is done to flour, to convert it into a dough. Though men who have the habit of analcoitus love to have heavy bottoms, but heterosexuals also have an equal weakness for such heavy bottoms.
A woman’s bottom should be fleshy and heavy so that she is in a position to bear the weight of a man and woman. That’s the reason why heavy bottoms are preferred by most men, and it is also a sign of a good figure for all women—next only to the bulging size of her breasts. All women like to have their bottoms smacked, held, and squeezed firmly by male hands. It is quite amazing how most women consider ‘buttock smacking’ to be a source of reaching orgasm/climax. Take care not to overdo smacking. If heavy-weight males catch and hold a woman’s buttocks firmly, most of their weight will get shifted and fall on the buttocks which have a fair amount of capacity to bear extra weight. We advise to smack the bottoms of their mate as long and as far as she wishes and relishes—beyond that, it would simply be nauseating.