What is Sex?
By the word ‘Sex’ we mean gender, gender distinction, sexual urge/desire, libido, the act of performing sex (coitus or coition), or even attraction or infatuation towards the opposite sex.
Sex is the most tantalizing and thrilling experience of life and it adds charm, variety, and meaning to life. Sex is not only a meeting of two bodies, it is also a meeting of souls. Most of the threatening episodal problems are solved during sex-act, when ladies normally prevail upon their husbands to yield to their demands, when mutual problems and irritating problems are resolved when bodies are worked up to meet extreme satiation of passions, when love notes are exchanged etc.
Sex is not an isolated affair, it is a great nerve reliever, calms down agitated and frayed tempers brings each partner nearer to the other, helps in sorting out differences, helps the normal functioning of all endocrine glands is a tonic for the body, and mind, and intellect, is an all-inclusive exercise, corrects cardiac, respiratory, digestive systems. Sex is a great tension reliever, and rejuvenator of body, mind, and intellect. It modifies activities.
Recent opinion about sex has gone a seachange. It is no more regarded as a shameful, secretive, prohibitive, and repellant device, instead, it is thought to energize various faculties of body and mind. When a husband and wife fall out, and have serious family and job-related problems, it is the sex act that serves as a great tension-reliever.
Western concept of sex is at total variance with that of the Indian concept. There is no element of permissiveness in our sex approach, whereas the Western approach is permissive and nonprohibitive. Our approach is simply casual and lopsided, whereas sex is regarded as an inseparable and essential part of life in the West though, of late, permissive openness has gradually started intruding into our way of thinking and action, yet both are still poles apart.
SEX LIFE DURING PRE-MARITAL AGE
Fear of social sanctions and resultant social boycotts is still rampant in our psyche. Sex, without marriage, is both a sin and a crime. If any action is performed under fear psychosis, no pleasure can possibly be derived. Those young men and ladies who indulge in pre-marital sex are not treated kindly in society and have to face the wrath of society. No doubt, there are still a few neo-rich families, where sex, without marriage, is not considered an act that should raise eyebrows, though the element of admission and openness is still missing, and that may possibly be the reason why incest is still considered a religious and social crime.
MARITAL SEX
Marriage is a pious institution that binds two known/unknown persons of both sexes into wedlock. Initiation and perpetuation of progeny is considered a sacred duty of all couples. Sex during martial life is simply an acclaimed and established way and there is no ground for any inhibitions and age-old taboos. After all, there is and ought to be no secret between husband and wife. Conjugal love is the best expression of sexual love, as no sense of guilt of or remorse is involved here.
SEX-RELATED DISORDERS (DUE TO DISSATISFIED SEX)
• Agitated and withdrawn behavior.
• Menstrual disorders.
• Communicable diseases.
• Hysteria, Epilepsy, Leucorrhoea.
• Neurasthenia, Nervous debility, loss or lack of sleep, or disturbed sleep pattern.
• Somnabulance (sleepwalking).
• Hysterical fits or even comatose.
• AIDS.
• Urinary problems and Veneral diseases.
• Backache, lassitude, pains, and aches (in general).