WHERE TO GO ON A DATE
Where you choose to take your date will depend on whether you are better at communicating with words or with your body. You’re obviously having trouble on the talking front if you ask her what her favorite film is, and she replied ‘Kodak’. If this is the case, take her to sell a film anyway and try to seduce her with bodily contact in the back row. No words need to be spoken, no corny chat-up lines, just pure physical affection.
On the other hand, if she reacts to gentle contact like a cow recoiling from an electric stun gun, you’re in for a verbose evening if you’re going to talk her around to your way of thinking. If you take her to a bar, make sure it’s a quiet one where you can hear each other talking rather than a nightclub in which you will need to lip-read.
If she selects a suitable pub, make sure it’s not one that is frequented by all of her ex-boyfriends, who are all fresh out of the army and desperate for a fight.
With most girls, avoid going to Halfords or a scrap metal yard for the first date (but think about it as a possible venue for a second date, if you get that far). Try to go somewhere exciting, like an airport, or somewhere fascinating, like a power station.
She may be more impressed if you offer her dinner rather than a drink, but you are also making a bigger financial commitment. Don’t waste too much money at this early stage unless you really can afford it.